The Missing Middle

Mar. 21st, 2026 12:13 am
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Found a nice gaming article on Bluesky (Three Tiers of RPG Publishing), which led me to another article, which I found insightful and clever (and a bit sad, as accurate talk about economics these days tends to be), and then hit the bit that blew my mind.

They Killed Normal and Called It Progress: "Julia Roberts, Applebee's, Bandcamp, your manager, and the death of everything in between. (Also, Sweetgreen is the A24 of dining and I will die on this hill.)"
Have you noticed that the middle is gone from everything? Restaurants, companies, careers, music, retail, the economy itself. What replaced it is a barbell: one enormous weight on each end, nothing in the center, and most of us trying not to get crushed by the bar.

And the replacement does look better every single time, I grant you that. The A24 film is better than the $40 million adult drama from 2007, yeah, we can all agree on that. The Sweetgreen bowl is better than the Applebee’s chicken parm, sure. Your favorite Substack is sharper than the mid-list magazine that folded in 2019. Every replacement is a genuine upgrade. But every replacement serves fewer and fewer people.
That's not the mind-blowing part. That's the thesis, the baseline, the part that he spends half of the ~3000 word essay explaining, giving examples of, making neat comparisons across different industries.

It's amazing that it doesn't get boring because it truly is the same damn pattern )

nursery rhyme

Mar. 20th, 2026 01:56 pm
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 Horror Writing Prompt no. 2130: preacher man
#horrorprompt

nursery rhyme

preacher man, preacher man
follows me home
my house is on fire
together we burn

03-20-2026

(my apologies to the ladybug nursery rhyme...it's the only thing my brain could hear when I saw the prompt)

ghost margin

Mar. 20th, 2026 10:19 am
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 Horror Writing Prompt no. 2131: apparition
#horrorprompt

ghost margin

i thought your shadow 
was an apparition
i was mistaken
it's just an instrument
without agency
dividing you from me

03-20-2026
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Good Morning, you Beautiful People!

Today is about errands, housekeeping, and laundering the sheets. The housekeeping should be quick, as I've been maintaining the daily tidies. I also cleaned the bathrooms (except mopping the floors -- I'll do that today) yesterday when I was grabbing the towels for their wash load. 

My head is in a good place, and I'm making better food decisions.  I've adjusted the FAA plan to include a starch exchange with lunch. I just don't feel full without that component in a meal, so I added it. I also moved my dairy around. This is what my adjusted plan looks like:

Breakfast 
1 protein
1 starch
1 fruit
coffee or tea

Lunch
1 protein
1 starch
2 veg
1 dairy

Dinner
1 protein
1 starch
2 veg

Dessert/Snack
1 fruit
1 dairy

I can live with eating this way.  I generally use my fat exchange in my lunch and dinner. Sometimes it's in the cooking process of an item, other times it's as salad dressing. Since I added the starch component to lunch, I've reduced the serving size of starch to 2/3 cup instead of 1 cup. So I'm still having 2 cups of whole grains and/or starchy veg. Note on that starchy veg: I know that peas and corn are supposed to fall into this category, but I still count them as veg, due to upbringing. What I use as starchy veg is primarily potatoes. I don't like eating 2/3 cup of peas, so it makes more sense to me to make them a complimentary part of a 1 c serving of mixed veg. Does that make sense?

Anyway, this is what I'm working with now. I did the nutritional analysis on this approach, and it looks good:

Calories: ~1,300–1,380 kcal
Protein: ~100–115 g
Carbs: ~140–165 g
Fat: ~35–45 g
Fiber: ~24–30 g 

It's actually lower in calories than I thought it would be, so I'll probably just not worry about being a bit more liberal about the fats.

I'm not trying to create a "perfect diet," I'm trying to create a template to make it easy to make healthy choices. To avoid turning this into an obsession, I'll check in on this matter in a couple of weeks and let you know how I'm doing.

I hope each of you find something beautiful in your day, and as always, thank you for being here!

night vigil

Mar. 19th, 2026 09:40 am
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 Horror Writing Prompt no. 2129: after dark
#horrorprompt

night vigil

after dark when 
the nightengale sings
you hold your breath
'til Shadow takes wing.

03-19-2026

craven

Mar. 18th, 2026 12:01 pm
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 Haiku Horror Writing Prompt no. 1697: boneless
#haikuhorrorprompt

craven

you think you are sleek
as you glide through the shadows
you are just boneless

03-08-2026
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Good Morning, you Beautiful People!

I had a great night's sleep last night. Between the lack of sleep the night before, charging my phone in my office instead of on bedside table, and turning off my lap top right after dinner (I had attempted to keep it off after clearing my desk around 4:30, but I had one of those "one more things" which truly needed my attention -- but I took care of it after dinner, and then shut down the laptop and successfully walked away -- go me!) I had no problems falling asleep and staying asleep. 

This is what I written down for today's parade of daily events (that's either a FlyLady thing or a Side-Tracked Home Executives thing...I forget which):

launder towels
review financials
schedule CVR appointment
launder towels
✔ sobriety check-in 
walk with Ted
a poem a day
close an open loop*
prep tomorrow's parade

The first three things are my priorities, and the rest of the rest items are things from the morning AM and PM routines. Walks with Ted have been very erratic, and I really need to fix that. It's not fair to him (we have a large back yard, so he does get active time and that's where he "care of his business"), and it's not good for me, either. The winter weather this year got us so far out of whack that I don't even know where whack is anymore. Did anyone else struggle with this past winter?

The close an open loop thing is something I picked up from Craig Benzine (aka WheezyWaiter on YouTube), and I'm finding it very helpful. He describes closing open loops here: 
https://youtu.be/AtWfkfF94xo?si=IoPe02Ifjzq4vduX

Okay, that's what's inside my brain today, and it is definitely in a positive place, not an overwhelmed or stressed out space. Getting a good night's sleep is a beautiful thing.

I hope you experience something beautiful today, and as always, thank you for being here!
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 Good Morning, You Beautiful People!

I had a crappy night sleep last night (it was my own misdoing -- I made the mistake of bringing my phone up to my bedroom), mostly because I started watching shorts on YouTube. I know that doesn't work for me, and yet, there I was, taking until 3am to realize that I needed to put the damn phone down. My screen time has been lousy lately, but that was ridiculous. I need to go back to charging my phone in my office.

I've been doing a lot of work of restructuring my days in terms of what I expect of my AM routine and my PM routine. I'm good with the morning practice for the most part, it's the evening routine that I keep sabotaging. I have my laptop set up to turn itself off at 9:30pm, and it did. But what did I do? I turned it back on, to finish "what I was working on." Not cool. Especially since "what I was working on" was shopping. I was shopping for needful things, but honestly, that totally could have waited until today.

I think I need to give myself a reward for turning off the electronics at a decent hour. And maybe stay off the laptop after dinner, except to watch movies (not YouTube!). Mostly, I need to respect the parameters I set for myself, right? As my therapist said, my "inner teenager" has been ornery lately. She's right. And I mentioned orneriness first, so it was cool. I haven't been doing my puzzles and podcasts for a while...maybe I need to bring that back? Or maybe find a new quiet time activity...maybe I need something fresh? I need to ponder that one. I'm open to suggestions, if you folks have any ideas on that front.

The other thing I'm focusing on is food. Yesterday was a pretty good day. I did choose to have a sandwich (a Reuben) and chips at lunch, so that wasn't on plan, but it wasn't like the sandwich led to a binge and I didn't even eat all the chips (but I did eat all the sandwich!), so I'm going to let that slide, and carry on. Dinner went as planned, my yogurt and fruit "dessert" went as planned, and breakfast this morning went as planned, as did yesterday's breakfast. So four out of five eating opportunities went as planned, so that's a B, right? I'm cool with a B. Shoot, maybe I should grade myself more often when it comes to this stuff.

I hope you find something beautiful in your day, and as always, thank you for being here. 

insensate

Mar. 17th, 2026 03:27 pm
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Horror Writing Prompt no. 2125: happily
#horrorprompt 

insensate

first drawn to look 
then blessed to glance 
happily  away
fine in knowing
it wasn't us

03-17-2026

#APoemADay

i survived the time change...i think?

Mar. 17th, 2026 03:26 pm
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 Good Afternoon, my Beautiful Friends!

The morning got away from me a bit today, but not in a bad. I'm trying to set and integrate a new morning and evening routine, as the old system was no longer working for me (gotta love ADHD!). It was just in time for my self-prescribed quarterly review, so all is well. In addition on working on new things, I also got my hair cut, ran to the store for a few items that I couldn't get at Costco, and watched a movie (Strawberry Mansion...very trippy, very much a low budget vibe, not everybody's cup of tea, but I quite enjoyed it). When I'm done writing this, I have some laundry to put away and should take Ted for a walk. I already got my poem a day written, and I even exercised (it was shifted to earlier in the morning routine, and yeah, that made a difference).

I am definitely feeling like myself again. As with every year (so far) I survived the time change from EST to DST. It just takes me a bit.

I hope that you find something beautiful in your day, and as always, thank you for being here. 

gently

Mar. 16th, 2026 05:38 pm
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 Horror Writing Prompt no. 2127: hollowing
#horrorprompt

gently

i carve a basin
viscera excised
hollowing myself
to make a safe space
for the dark burden
you ask me to hold.

03-16-2025

gray but not dismal

Mar. 16th, 2026 08:45 am
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Good Morning, you Beautiful People!

It's a gray day here, but not in a downer sort of way. I have my list for Costco, one errand from CVS, and my Costco Rewards check at hand, so errands will be accomplished this morning. When I'm done here, I'll take a shower, throw the laundry in the dryer, and then take care of those errands. It's also garbage day, so I'll deep clean the fridge as I stock up. I know that everybody says to do it before, but I'm better at seeing the task through when it's paired with stocking up.

After that? I think those are the only obligations. I might watch Frankenstein. Or I might read the book I picked up from the used bookstore -- Eater of Ghosts. Time will tell.

I hope you find something beautiful in your day, and as always, thank you for being here! 

from whence the blood flows

Mar. 15th, 2026 04:52 pm
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Haiku Horror Writing Prompt no. 1693: mercies
#haikuhorrorprompt

from whence the blood flows

not from feral stabs
but from tenderly sliced veins
mercies ebb and flow.


03-15-2026
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Good Morning you Beautiful People!

Doing my best to check in while it is still morning...I have 8 minutes to compose this. ;~)

It's that time of year when one receives their Costco Rewards check (if they have the Costco credit card), so it is time to do my annual "let's try shopping for groceries at Costco" trip. Throughout the year, I use the card for gas and incidental spending, so sometimes, that adds up. I might be able to get two weeks of groceries out of this, but I'll have to be careful of not buying too much at once. So I'm giving myself a budget, and using ChatGPT to plan it out.

I feel a little guilty about that, but it's going to be so much faster than me bouncing back and forth between the Costco website to check on prices and my meal planning notes. I live near an area that has an ever growing footprint of processing centers, and we are starting to see that they really do impact the local climate. The area in which most of these centers are located is definitely creating it's own micro-climate zone which regularly has higher temperatures than the surrounding areas. Our local weather guy was going to do a thing to try to debunk that idea, but when he saw the data, he said he would have to that project on hold, as he wanted to do more research on the subject, because he was surprised to see data that indicated the area in question did seem to operate in a heat bubble. And then there was no further story, because even local news can be swept under the rug. Does that sound too conspiratorial? I dunno. Even if I'm being paranoid, I don't make a habit of using AI and I feel a bit weird choosing it now.

And that is your unplanned trip into how my brain thinks sometimes. And it is now 12:06, so I hope you have a beautiful afternoon, and as always, thank you for being here! 

something wicked, something wild

Mar. 14th, 2026 08:29 pm
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 Haiku Horror Writing Prompt no. 1642: writhe
#haikuhorrorprompt #notahaiku

something wicked, something wild

under weather, under want
under waters
something writhes

03-14-2026

tableaux

Mar. 6th, 2026 07:29 pm
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 Haiku Horror Writing Prompt no. 1685: tableaux
#haikuhorrorprompt

tableaux

enduring nightmares 
laid on grief's cloistered altar
frozen mise en scène

03-06-2026

a small token

Mar. 9th, 2026 07:26 pm
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 Horror Writing Prompt no. 2117: retribution
#horrorprompt

a small token

take this as my contribution,
just a dash of retribution:
as you sit upon the floor
locked behind an iron door
I spit upon this convolution
in hopes to speed your dissolution.

03-09-2026
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Happy Saturday!

I'm going to be doing a little maintenance today. It will likely cause a tiny interruption of service (specifically for www.dreamwidth.org) on the order of 2-3 minutes while some settings propagate. If you're on a journal page, that should still work throughout!

If it doesn't work, the rollback plan is pretty quick, I'm just toggling a setting on how traffic gets to the site. I'll update this post if something goes wrong, but don't anticipate any interruption to be longer than 10 minutes even in a rollback situation.

railroad ties that bind

Mar. 12th, 2026 11:29 am
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 Haiku Horror Writing Prompt no. 1681: brake
#haikuhorrorprompt #notahaiku

railroad ties that bind

these ties you will not break
are woven into braids.
your wayward, reckless brain
-- a train that never brakes.

03-12-2026

aftermath

Mar. 13th, 2026 11:27 am
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 Horror Writing Prompt no. 2113: flames
#horrorprompt

aftermath

we gather round the ashes
the fire no longer burns
dinged gray with soot and shame
we know we were the flames.

03-13-2026

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