tax docs, sheets, and hula hoops

Feb. 11th, 2026 11:51 am
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Good Morning, you Beautiful People!

Today, I have the not-so-fun job of gathering our tax documents to see if we have everything we need or if I need to hunt anything down. If I have everything, then I'll send the documents to our tax guy. I suggested that I do the taxes as the cost of the tax guy keeps going up, and our taxes aren't as complicated as they used to be. My husband said he'd rather stick with the tax guy for now, and that we could discuss switching to doing them ourselves for next year. Other than that, I have a few bills to pay and some tidying up to do with the February budget. And I need to make the bed and launder sheets.

I haven't done much to address my inclination to want to grab on to my husband's hula hoop when it comes to his pain issues and health, other than to be aware that it's his hula hoop, not mine. I still think that looking for a support group for myself might be a good idea, but I haven't done any further looking since my first search. Just having the conversation with my husband did a lot to slow down the squirrely thoughts that were running around my head, so that's a good thing.

I guess that's it for this morning -- I hope you each find something beautiful in your day, and as always, thank you for being here!

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Back in August of 2025, we announced a temporary block on account creation for users under the age of 18 from the state of Tennessee, due to the court in Netchoice's challenge to the law (which we're a part of!) refusing to prevent the law from being enforced while the lawsuit plays out. Today, I am sad to announce that we've had to add South Carolina to that list. When creating an account, you will now be asked if you're a resident of Tennessee or South Carolina. If you are, and your birthdate shows you're under 18, you won't be able to create an account.

We're very sorry to have to do this, and especially on such short notice. The reason for it: on Friday, South Carolina governor Henry McMaster signed the South Carolina Age-Appropriate Design Code Act into law, with an effective date of immediately. The law is so incredibly poorly written it took us several days to even figure out what the hell South Carolina wants us to do and whether or not we're covered by it. We're still not entirely 100% sure about the former, but in regards to the latter, we're pretty sure the fact we use Google Analytics on some site pages (for OS/platform/browser capability analysis) means we will be covered by the law. Thankfully, the law does not mandate a specific form of age verification, unlike many of the other state laws we're fighting, so we're likewise pretty sure that just stopping people under 18 from creating an account will be enough to comply without performing intrusive and privacy-invasive third-party age verification. We think. Maybe. (It's a really, really badly written law. I don't know whether they intended to write it in a way that means officers of the company can potentially be sentenced to jail time for violating it, but that's certainly one possible way to read it.)

Netchoice filed their lawsuit against SC over the law as I was working on making this change and writing this news post -- so recently it's not even showing up in RECAP yet for me to link y'all to! -- but here's the complaint as filed in the lawsuit, Netchoice v Wilson. Please note that I didn't even have to write the declaration yet (although I will be): we are cited in the complaint itself with a link to our August news post as evidence of why these laws burden small websites and create legal uncertainty that causes a chilling effect on speech. \o/

In fact, that's the victory: in December, the judge ruled in favor of Netchoice in Netchoice v Murrill, the lawsuit over Louisiana's age-verification law Act 456, finding (once again) that requiring age verification to access social media is unconstitutional. Judge deGravelles' ruling was not simply a preliminary injunction: this was a final, dispositive ruling stating clearly and unambiguously "Louisiana Revised Statutes §§51:1751–1754 violate the First Amendment of the U.S. Constitution, as incorporated by the Fourteenth Amendment of the U.S. Constitution", as well as awarding Netchoice their costs and attorney's fees for bringing the lawsuit. We didn't provide a declaration in that one, because Act 456, may it rot in hell, had a total registered user threshold we don't meet. That didn't stop Netchoice's lawyers from pointing out that we were forced to block service to Mississippi and restrict registration in Tennessee (pointing, again, to that news post), and Judge deGravelles found our example so compelling that we are cited twice in his ruling, thus marking the first time we've helped to get one of these laws enjoined or overturned just by existing. I think that's a new career high point for me.

I need to find an afternoon to sit down and write an update for [site community profile] dw_advocacy highlighting everything that's going on (and what stage the lawsuits are in), because folks who know there's Some Shenanigans afoot in their state keep asking us whether we're going to have to put any restrictions on their states. I'll repeat my promise to you all: we will fight every state attempt to impose mandatory age verification and deanonymization on our users as hard as we possibly can, and we will keep actions like this to the clear cases where there's no doubt that we have to take action in order to prevent liability.

In cases like SC, where the law takes immediate effect, or like TN and MS, where the district court declines to issue a temporary injunction or the district court issues a temporary injunction and the appellate court overturns it, we may need to take some steps to limit our potential liability: when that happens, we'll tell you what we're doing as fast as we possibly can. (Sometimes it takes a little while for us to figure out the exact implications of a newly passed law or run the risk assessment on a law that the courts declined to enjoin. Netchoice's lawyers are excellent, but they're Netchoice's lawyers, not ours: we have to figure out our obligations ourselves. I am so very thankful that even though we are poor in money, we are very rich in friends, and we have a wide range of people we can go to for help.)

In cases where Netchoice filed the lawsuit before the law's effective date, there's a pending motion for a preliminary injunction, the court hasn't ruled on the motion yet, and we're specifically named in the motion for preliminary injunction as a Netchoice member the law would apply to, we generally evaluate that the risk is low enough we can wait and see what the judge decides. (Right now, for instance, that's Netchoice v Jones, formerly Netchoice v Miyares, mentioned in our December news post: the judge has not yet ruled on the motion for preliminary injunction.) If the judge grants the injunction, we won't need to do anything, because the state will be prevented from enforcing the law. If the judge doesn't grant the injunction, we'll figure out what we need to do then, and we'll let you know as soon as we know.

I know it's frustrating for people to not know what's going to happen! Believe me, it's just as frustrating for us: you would not believe how much of my time is taken up by tracking all of this. I keep trying to find time to update [site community profile] dw_advocacy so people know the status of all the various lawsuits (and what actions we've taken in response), but every time I think I might have a second, something else happens like this SC law and I have to scramble to figure out what we need to do. We will continue to update [site community profile] dw_news whenever we do have to take an action that restricts any of our users, though, as soon as something happens that may make us have to take an action, and we will give you as much warning as we possibly can. It is absolutely ridiculous that we still have to have this fight, but we're going to keep fighting it for as long as we have to and as hard as we need to.

I look forward to the day we can lift the restrictions on Mississippi, Tennessee, and now South Carolina, and I apologize again to our users (and to the people who temporarily aren't able to become our users) from those states.

Game Bundle: No ICE in MN

Feb. 9th, 2026 03:11 pm
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No ICE in Minnesota bundle at itch.io: 1400+ games for $10 donation that goes to the Immigrant Law Center of Minnesota.

Notable items include:
  • Baba Is You (video game)
  • A Good Snowman Is Hard to Build (video game)
  • Calico (video game)
  • ECO MOFOS!! (TTRPG)
  • Bump in the Dark: Revised Edition (TTRPG)
  • Tangled Blessings (solo TTRPG)
  • Be Seeing You (GM-less TTRPG)
  • Rosewood Abby (Brindlewood style TTRPG)
  • Three Magic Eyeland collections (...nobody else may care about stereograms but I love them)
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From this thread at Bluesky - When people ask how to get into GA SF I always say that the right way is via some of those fat "Best Of" short fiction collections.

Long discussion, many comments, mostly agreeing that yep, the way to get people into SF is anthologies, not novels, especially "best of" anthologies rather than whatever theme-of-the-day was popular. Also many people agreeing that many of "the classics" do not hold up today, and "Heinlein juveniles + the Foundation trilogy" is not a good suggestion for a young teen who might be interested in scifi now.

So... if you were building an anthology of The Great Science Fiction, with a focus specifically on non-SF readers who might be interested, what would you put in it?

Some limitations may be in order )

good morning, and good afternoon

Feb. 4th, 2026 12:06 pm
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 Good Morning, you Beautiful People!
 
If I can write this in less than two minutes, that is. ;~) I suspect it will be afternoon before I post.
 
I just popped the sheets in the washer, and am getting ready to play with the February budget (I took a sloppy stab at it on Monday). Other than that, my day is basically open. I was quite productive yesterday, so I don't have anything pressing down on me to complete. I like that feeling, except for when it leads to supreme laziness. I think I'll work on poetry prompts this afternoon, because I don't think I've written any poems this month, and I wrote very few last month. I even put a reminder on my phone for "creative time." If I don't feel like writing, maybe I'll tune up the violin and see if I can remember how to play Lightly Row (if you ever played violin, you'll understand that reference).
 
I hope you find something beautiful in your day, and as always, thank you for being here!
 
[and yeas, I finished this at 12:04, so Good Afternoon, too!]
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Hi all!

I'm doing some minor operational work tonight. It should be transparent, but there's always a chance that something goes wrong. The main thing I'm touching is testing a replacement for Apache2 (our web server software) in one area of the site.

Thank you!

the distraction is the hyperfocus

Feb. 3rd, 2026 04:44 pm
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 Good Afternoon, my Beautiful Friends!
 
Looks like I skipped another day—oops.  I'm doing well, but I have been VERY distractible and simultaneously hyperfocused lately. 
 
The distraction IS the hyperfocus: planning a capsule wardrobe for spring/summer based on what I want to pack for our trip to Spain in August. I even used Chat GPT, and I'm not a fan of AI chat boxes. I've also used YouTube, and have spent a lot of time shopping without buying. Well, there's been a little bit of buying, but not a lotta bit. I've been looking mostly into light merino wool options, and created an outrageous shopping list based on Woolx, Wool&, and Unbound Merino. And oh my goodness -- purchasing an entire wardrobe like that would be insanely expensive. 
 
Luckily, I already own some of the items, and I've started shopping on eBay to see if I can find some of the same or similar items second-hand. It's been a lot of fun, but I haven't gotten diddly done around the house the past several days. Thankfully, I turned a corner on that obsession today, and managed to tidy up, fold and put away all of the clean laundry, mop the kitchen and bathrooms, and clear out the empty boxes in my office, along with tossing a bunch of garbage I don't need. Oh, and actually boxing up some of the stuff for donations. So today was highly productive. 
 
That might be due to the Turkish coffee I should have said "no, thank you," to at the hairdresser's. But it smelled SOOO good! So I said yes, and have had caffeine coursing through my system all day.  I'll need to take some low-dose melatonin after dinner, and another low dose before going to bed.  If not, I'll be up until 4 in the morning, because my body does not process caffeine like a normal person.
 
Oh! And I had two small victories on the food front. We had breakfast late (after my hair appointment), so I picked up Dunkin' Donuts. They now have loaded hashbrowns (their hashbrowns topped with cheese sauce and bacon), so I gave them a try. They were tasty and indulgent and not the best thing ever...exactly the sort of thing I would eat to completion in the past. But I got about halfway through the serving and decided it was enough. So I gave the rest of them to my son. The second small victory was the same sort of thing. I realized that I forgot to take my morning meds, and one of the meds is supposed to be taken with food. I decided to have a small serving of flavored peanuts (lemon-Old Bay...absolutely delicious, if you grew up in Maryland, which I did!). Again, about halfway through, I decided that was enough to count as having something to eat and that there was no reason to eat anymore. That's not how my brain usually works, and I'm not sure what triggered that clarity, but for me, that was a beautiful moment, and I hope it continues to repeat itself!
 
I hope you've found something beautiful in your day, and as always, thank you for being here!

from ay yi yi to huzza!

Jan. 30th, 2026 07:10 pm
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Ay yi yi! Sorry about my absence! All is well, and my husband's surgeon believes that he has solved the meralgia paresthetica. Once again, it appears that my husband's nervous system did not come with standard wiring: his primary femoral nerve was rubbing against bone, instead of hanging out around the muscles where it "belongs." The surgeon told me that his nerve was inflamed 4 times its normal size. The nerve is now protected with a sleeve, and this should eliminate nearly all the pain. Since the nerve itself was damaged from the abrasion against the bone, it's possible that it won't entirely heal itself, but the excruciating pain should be a thing of the past. Huzzah!
 
I've been avoiding a lot of regularly scheduled activities (housekeeping, checking in here, writing a poem daily, walking the dog, doing my PT) just to hang out with my husband, and sometimes to just escape the real world. No alcohol was imbibed, but some purchases were made, which might not have been the best idea. My eating habits have been secure. Really, the alcohol cravings are basically gone now, and I really like that. So other than the spending (which wasn't that bad -- about $100 total: clothes, a purse, and a ring from eBay, so at least I was buying second hand!), I have been keeping an even keel. More time was spent shopping rather than buying, and that mostly means I need to remove access to eBay from my phone. It was just too easy to get to.
 
I've been waiting for Ted (that beautiful beast of a dog) to do his business so that I can take him to Doggie Daycare for a day of play with his doggie friends, plus a bath (and boy, or boy, he NEEDS that bath!), but I'm going to have to stop waiting soon and just take him whether he does his business or not. It's super cold out there, so I get it. But I'd rather not deliver him to doggie day care without his business being complete first.
 
Okay, that's it for this morning. I hope you find something beautiful in your day, and as always, thank you for being here!
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